Sex not just enjoyment – Ara The Drummer

By Ayo Onikoyi
Nigerian drummer and musician Ara The Drummer has shared her perspective on intimacy, relationships, and personal boundaries, stating that sex goes beyond physical pleasure and involves a deeper level of connection.
Speaking on the Under Her Skin Podcast, Ara said people often underestimate the significance of sexual intimacy and the access it gives another person into their lives.
“Sex is not just enjoyment; it’s literally just putting your life’s plan in somebody’s hands,” she said.
The drummer compared sexual intimacy to sharing private information, adding: “You don’t give someone the PIN to your ATM card or the password to your email. When you sleep with someone...