The need to stop equating sex with love

By Bunmi Sofola
Some women’s sexual escapades often sound stranger than fiction.  Why does a particular woman seek sex all of the time, with different men losing all sense of shame?  Abibat’s reason was because she thought she was fat and unattractive. The only way she could have been interested in her was to spread her thighs at the drop of a hat!  “Even as a teenager, boys never asked me out – or even talked to me.  I was 15 when I lost my virginity.  I’d been so easy with the man next door who furtively asked me to get him a bottle of soft drink”, she explained.
“When I took the drink to him, he asked me in and quickly shut the door.  He simply took me to the bedroom, groped me and...