You need to move on by forgiving that affair

By Bunmi Sofola
Someone once dubbed Lagos the adultery capital of the world.  A bit unfair judging by the frantic global bed-hoppingsthat go on all over the place.  But it does not mean that adultery is no longer the shocker it used to be.  So can you forgive a straying partner?  Joy, a top executive in the marketing department of a manufacturing company, said she’d invested so much into her relationship over eight years to let a little thing like adultery destroy it.  “Call it the seven-year itch”, said Joy, “but we’d been living together for that long when Afe, my partner’s affection, began sliding.
“It was the little things that stopped first, like his afternoon phone calls saying ...